The Dance Of A Lifetime

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24/12/2017

iMAGINE ALL THE DYNAMICS

Herein lies the tale of all the ages -

Relationships are a large part of change and whilst we are going back and forth and getting stuck in 'she did it' and 'he did it', the relationship goes on and long after it has ended, it still goes on - except that it will have picked up a few extra f-words in the mix. 
There is always a trinity in any relationship and it is like a cosmic dance.
There is YOU
There is ME
and then there is the 
SPACE BETWEEN YOU AND ME.
This space between us may not have a body, and it may not have five senses but it does have awareness and seeks to evolve and grow. 
It is reliant on the input from both YOU and ME and survives on what we feed it. If we replenish it with 
- nutritious minerals such as: love, patience and forgiveness,
- delicious snacks such as: listening, communication and gratitude 
- delightful treats such as: trust, perseverance and honesty

It will grow to be:
Long lasting * Strong * Resilient * Intimate * Loving * Faithful & Trusting

If this space between, called a relationship, is not treated with respect and junk elements are handed to it, such as:
Abuse, disrespect, dishonesty, betrayal, humiliation etc

And if it is left in an unloving way, lacking in faithfulness, 
it will either survive - but not thrive or it will die . . .
This is the Dance of a Lifetime!

It is wise to know the three parts and they should be treated as such:

"YOU deserve to loved and shown respect. YOU deserve to be held and cared for. YOU deserve to be considered and trusted. And these are the gifts which I will offer into the space between YOU and ME, knowing that I cannot make you receive or accept them but in giving them, I have no lack."

"I am willing to accept the love and care that you place in the space between YOU and ME without judgement. I am willing to accept that YOU can only receive what YOU are able to accept for yourself. I am willing to allow YOU to choose the gifts that YOU have to offer and in doing so, I will learn to accept them for myself."

"The space between US (the relationship) deserves to be treated with respect. It is the place where we are able to share our best and most wonderful aspects and it is also the place where YOU and I can place our crystal ball of trust and our rubber ball of love. WE know that love can bounce back and is resilent, but WE also know that trust can never be dropped for once it is, it shatters and is rarely the same again. WE know that where there is three . . . there is communion on a soul level."

Change your relationships!

Begin by seeing them as a place between YOU and THEM and observe yourself. Take note of what it is that YOU are offering.
Take note of what YOU are demanding.
Take note of what YOU are suffering.
Take note of what YOU are expecting.
Take note of what YOU are willing to place in the space between.

- Jaylee Balch -

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  1. Unknown25 December 2017 at 15:27

    I was taught, or naively taught myself, that love between two persons is fusional, has to be fusional. Like a newborn with her mother, like the final reunion with God where we become one, where we fully realize that we're one.

    Of course, that doesn't leave much room for a 'space in between'. And I guess that in a word of duality, our relationship with our fellow human beings (and others being for that matter), relationship cannot be fusional, there are something else. A precious, invaluable, highly efficient (while fragile) tool helping us to learn how to interact with others, therefore to learn about interacting with oursleves.

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  2. Unknown30 December 2017 at 05:34

    Such an expansive practice when you look at the number of relationships you have. So many opportunities to master this practice.

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